I don't know, I just don't want to be strung along.
He can show me/tell me that he really wants to work on this because he thinks our marriage is important. If he doesn't want to bother, he can just say so. That's fine.
I'm pissed at H, the new secretary who isn't so new is bothering me to bail her out of a jam, the college registrar screwed up S18's schedule (I paid full time tuition and they gave him only 8 credits this semester! I may be taking along lunch tomorrow to help him fix that one) and the fridge his roommate brought from chicago isn't working...
Really though, what words do you need to hear, what actions do you need to see that will make a difference in one week?
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
He's stalling. It's time for you to drive this R for a change. I'd tell him that if he wants any chance of working things out, he will go to the next session no matter what. No excuses, no reasons, no more stalling.
Man's a bully.
SD
Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!
Really though, what words do you need to hear, what actions do you need to see that will make a difference in one week?
Actually, I don't think there is much he can do or say. I think I'm back to realizing I just need out.
And thank you for the hugs, Jeff. That helps!
Whatever you decide we are here to support you. You've taken your self respect out of his pocket and it looks very good on you.
BTW. I am only 4 hours away from you.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
