25....not sure. On paper it should be done within 4 months but I hope sooner. A basic framework was exchanged already discussing joint custody, 60/40 house in favor of me, percentage of my practice, 'liberal visitation', child support.....

STBXW is still negative on me. Didn't see my son for over 24 hours and when he came home last night, I sat down on the bed to discuss his day and once again, in front of him, STBXW said, "he needs to go to bed by himself..he has to be up early in the morning and he needs to sleep by himself".

???????

Me: He can discuss his day with his father. Other than that I won't discuss this in front of him (response recommended by FC).

I won't get peace until this is over. I post events so others can see how a marriage dissolves. I am resigned to the fact that the anger and hate that my STBXW shows me will never go away. Reminds me of an old Star Trek episode:
The Alternative Factor

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;