I'd stay away from playing games with a profile. Creating extra drama isn't going to help you, I think.
As far as MC goes, well, I think he is delaying. I think he knows that story doesn't end well for him. I believe he wants to talk in order to either get you to change your mind, or to try to control what you'll say. To get you stories to match, so to speak.
Yes, it's all about him. I think you should not have rescheduled, but it's too late this time. But I think next time, if this happens, you tell him you are going, he can come or not. But that there isn't another chance.
I'm not sure creating a profile to try to catch him is such a great idea. I totally get why you want to but isn't it like entrapment? Just think long and hard before you do it. Are you sure you want to travel that road?
As far as him canceling on another MC appointment...sounds like he's stalling to me. Perhaps he's trying to see just how far he can push you or how long he can keep you around without really doing anything to work on the M. Are you still moving in Sept? Perhaps then he'll realize just how serious you are.
Me: 39 H: 39 S: 15 M: 18 years Bomb: 6/3/09 H moved out: 10/15/09 H moved back:5/30/10
I'd stay away from playing games with a profile. Creating extra drama isn't going to help you, I think.
I know this, that's why I haven't done it and I won't. But I'll admit, it was tempting, but then I remember I'm an adult and not a immature teenager, and I get over it.
I'd stay away from playing games with a profile. Creating extra drama isn't going to help you, I think.
I know this, that's why I haven't done it and I won't. But I'll admit, it was tempting, but then I remember I'm an adult and not a immature teenager, and I get over it.
One immature teenager in the house is enough. And I am not referring to any actual teenagers!
I'm just mad and frustrated. I'm not sure what more he wants to talk about, the only thing I can think of is for him to try to convince me to see the light of his reasoning. I mean, what else is there? I don't want to talk to him.
I'm just mad and frustrated. I'm not sure what more he wants to talk about, the only thing I can think of is for him to try to convince me to see the light of his reasoning. I mean, what else is there? I don't want to talk to him.
I don't have a bit of doubt about this. He KNOWS what's going to happen if you go to MC. He is trying to head it off.
It counts for nothing, but if you decided to put the move out plan back into action, you wouldn't get an argument from me. If he still wants MC, thats fine, but you don't have to live with him to do that.
Let's not forget- he's "angry and frustrated". Nothing good can come out of talking, all it does is wear me down. And when he wore me down before, he got me to do what he wanted. I'm not doing that again. I think he's got a week to show me what he's got, then I'm putting that security deposit down.
