Hi I also agree with the others. The thing is not that you should not stay together and eventually marry,but you don't want to do anything else before you resolve this problem. OK you may need to come to some compromises, just as you do in any other area of marriage eg how many kids to have whatever. But it has to be mutual, it has to be something you can live with happily for the rest of your life . You have to be able to communicate, and feel that your partner understands the importance of this issue to you and cares enough about your feelings to change if you really need them to. I bet he does.
