I think I have stopped being clingy. I really am not enjoying being around her anymore. I think I am moving on. However, I think I can still be sad for the children. It would be obviously insincere to be anything else. I am not crying. I am not asking for hugs. I am not touching anymore. Neither is she.
I guess the one attractive behavior I can show right now is my concern for the girls. And I can go about going on with my life. In my opinion, dating at this point would be unattractive. It would show that I need someone to fulfill me. I want to be bigger than that.
That's definitely one opinion but it also shows that you are moving on. No one is talking about finding your next true love, having sex and getting married to someone else. It shows that you have confidence to pick yourself up and try again, I personally don't think it would show that you need someone to fulfill you.
You currently are bigger, you don't have to prove it by showing your fidelity especially when that means nothing to your wife as is and believe me it makes her position much stronger if you're sitting at home waiting which is the mental image she has of you, it is also certain to be one of the things that pop up in the many conversations she has with the other man..."... poor dear, he is sitting at home, waiting for me to come to my senses, hopefully one day he'll pick himself up again".
