I dont think he's going to take you seriously until you move out and go dark.

He is a classic narcissist.

Not sure a baseball bat would wake him up.

Go to counseling for YOU. If someday he decides to show up after realizing how serious this is then great.

I agree with you. You sounded a lot better when you were all set to move out and start building up your PMA and self-esteem.

Good Luck. PMA