Wifey - some things I've done have definitely gotten a positive reaction.
If it gets a positive reaction it should be a part of what you do. But you also need to do things for you. To help you heal. To take care of you.
These have to be things you do because you want to and not for the fact that she will react - positively or negatively - to what you do.
When you feel low it is hard to do. Start with a good cup of coffee at a coffee shop and people watch.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.