So I'm going to do what WASs seldom do -- I'm going to keep an open mind and give her a chance.
Hard to pick which piece of poetry to highlight here but really this is the beauty of the true evolution of a LBS...and I am proud and will give us credit for this.
To have the strength and the courage to commit to our own well beings, detach, walk through the grueling fire of separation, divorce and all of its inherent pain and loss AND still simultaneously retain a willingness to see WAS anew, perhaps as a prospect among many, always deserving to be viewed through a new lens should he or she, against the odds, man or woman up to our new and well clarified standards. Sweet relief it is...as sad as this whole tearing a family apart is, what a gift to experience it the way we have. Holy cow, this is living!