I've been where you are SP. I didnt jump either. You described my thought process as well. I was hoping he was ready for the work, I was looking to see committment...
I dont regret it. I was wondering how we still expect them to show us they ar emuch better than what they are showing us already.
Coach and Greek are not a common story. No OPs and relatively FAST recovery. That allowed damage control. At least that is how I see their love story.
I wish your wife surprises you SP. Do NOT, I repeat, do NOT show any mercy. They need a much bigger BOMB to get their heads straight. K