That is so messed up, WL. Your W sounds like how my own xW often gets -- spouting off purely on emotions, with nary a rational thought involved. You find yourself trying to parse what they're saying and no matter how you look at it it just doesn't make any real sense.

My gut feeling, based on these sorts of things that my own xW has said, is that she's going to proceed with whatever foolish thing she has in mind but just wants you to not interfere and to not hold her accountable for what the consequences. It's crazy WAS talk.

Anybody else have the same take?


Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.