Quote: I'd suggest working on the problem BEFORE you get married. I married my H knowing that sex was an issue, and it hasn't gotten any better in the 1 1/2 years we've been married. H is LD; I am HD. This is pretty much all that we ever fight about, and it creates a lot of stress.
We were also together for about 3 1/2 years and lived together for 1 year before getting married. The problem is not going away and has probably gotten worse.
I have to second COgal's response. It won't go away on its own and will probably grow into a bigger problem. If you *can* work to overcome this before you get married, you will have a better chance of staying married, in my opinion.
I married my LD H (age 51, I'm 54) knowing full well that this problem would not resolve itself. And it did get worse. We're in therapy right now and I have every reason to believe we will resolve it and have a stronger, happier, more fulfilling marriage.
