I think I have stopped being clingy. I really am not enjoying being around her anymore. I think I am moving on. However, I think I can still be sad for the children. It would be obviously insincere to be anything else. I am not crying. I am not asking for hugs. I am not touching anymore. Neither is she.

I guess the one attractive behavior I can show right now is my concern for the girls. And I can go about going on with my life. In my opinion, dating at this point would be unattractive. It would show that I need someone to fulfill me. I want to be bigger than that.


Me: 36, W: 33, M: 10 yrs
Bomb: 1/09, Seperated: 9/09, Piecing Begins: 10/09

My story: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...t=91&page=1