You know, I am in a different position in the fact that I am literally starting over. I thank God for my family and friends that are putting up with me living with them right now. But the mere thought of setting up a house and then having someone in my life? No. Not now.
And yet I hate being alone.
I think we are scared when we are just not ready. I am not, you are not, and even though they are for different reasons, the time will come when the fear is not there anymore. A break up is painful, and with that comes the fear that if we allow ourselves to be vulnerable again, that a) our spouse/bf will come back, or b) that we will get hurt again.
The only time you should worry about dating again is when you are done, and when you don't hurt anymore.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
