I know that it was perfect strangers in a strange land that got me to where I am now, along with my therapist and couple of very good understanding friends here who didn’t let me give up.
I’ve always thought your H didn’t really want to go. He was very confused by your actions, his own, then meeting someone, and it all just go so confusing. I’m glad you both made the decision together to take a step back and work together.
When it gets hard, just look at him and say “I’m still committed to this. I may have done or said something to you recently that makes you think otherwise and for that, I apologize. But I’m still committed to this.” And just learn from the mistakes both of you are still going to make and be positive.
