Sorry I couldn't meet up with you or Tomato on my trip back to NY. The timing was just all off. I even wound up staying over a night on Sunday in Maryland because I just couldn't drive any more.
I can only advise you right now, when you don't know what to do, to not "do" something. Do make your L aware of the sitch, but don't make any decisions while your head and heart are swimming with emotions.
I can understand the disgust. I can understand the hurt and resentment. Be gentle with yourself right now.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
