Heard from my L on Friday--nasty note wondering why I hadn't made arrangements to pay the enormous fee I owe him. I never received a statement. Now I'm in the process of making arrangements to pay it off over time, and I'm just struck by how dramatically xH's choices continue to negatively impact his daughter.

Got a note from my friend from 800 miles away. Seems his xW recently started dating, and forwarded him a graphic love note from the man she just spent the weekend with. She's a classic WAW, altho perhaps even a little more extreme. He's amazed that she's already "in love" and planning a future with the new guy. And I was reminded that my xH was in love and planning to spend the rest of his life with his "soulmate" just 2 days after they discovered a mutual interest in each other. Another reason I think that WAW syndrome and MLC deserve their own DSM-IV category--so predictable.


M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012