FYI, there are Do-It-Yourself books for divorces and sep agreements. H and I took ours all the way to filing for the final judgement with nary a lawyer involved.
Also, re: telling the kids - H and I told kidlet (who was 6) together, calmly but that didn't stop kidlet from breaking down crying, then bolting from the house and running blindly down the street. Took us about half an hour to find him. He'd managed to get back into the house and was curled in a ball in the back of one of the closets.
Last edited by Dia; 08/24/0903:53 PM.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
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