Need Advice, WAW wants to give it a month

[Thinker]

Sounds like you are there. It is a bit strange and difficult to comprehend if you are not there. But, it's a place where you still WANT to save your M, but you don't NEED to. You want your family intact, but you understand, and ACCEPT, that there is happiness out there for you even if D happens.

There is one more part to this:

You also ACCEPT that you have no CONTROL over whether or not the M is saved.