I don't know if it was right or wrong to do this, but this morning I sent H a text that just said, "just checking on you to see if you are doing any better today" He replied and said yes and thanks for asking. He asked how I was doing and I said good. He said that was good to hear. Then he called me, he sounded better than yesterday, but still a little down. He then said he has a lot going on with work and stuff. Didn't elaborate and I didn't pry. I just told him I was glad to hear he was better. He then said he was going to come home soon to grab some sweatshirts. Didn't say when, but I was surprised to here him call here "home". He hasn't been referring to our house as home at all, he has been referring to it as "there". I don't want to get my hopes up, but I hope these are all good signs.
