spend some time reading threads from men who have WAW and study what they say their wifes say to them. What is called "Script" on this site. Add it to your vocabulary.
YEP.. Exactly
It is working on most all the men on this site. If you read the threads from the BS men on here, you will notice a fairly common theme and thread.
Something like this...
"I didn't wake up UNTIL she wanted out".....
Over and over and over.. The men on this site did NOT wake up until the WS started showing signs of walking away and no chance of loving him back anymore...
Again.... So what worked for that woman who is the WS?
It was REJECTING HIM.... Letting go... Finding another man... ILYBNILWY...
Suddenly that man is on this site... Reading on relationships, begging, crying, changing, doing the laundry after never having done it in his life, offers of foot rubs, suddenly communication is top priority to him after ignoring her for years, suddenly he talks to her with respect, learns to apologize, gets totally involved with the kids, father of the year, husband of the year, is open to counseling after telling her no for years, suddenly shaves, works out. Suddenly his marriage vows mean everything after treating her like a second class citizen for years.... on and on and on..... SUDDENLY.. all AFTER (not during or before) AFTER she shows action of wanting out and being done...
All of those things are what have worked for the WAW to cause the men on this site to be here. Some for 2 years or more that are STILL getting rejected (see how good it works?) and can't let go of HER, now that she has let go...
CHALLENGE.. Some men need a challenge....
Without a doubt. The hardest part for me is getting women to quit questioning it and just follow the advice. It works. Much better than "hanging in there" while he eats his cake and gets the challenge he needs from another source....
That's my opinion and experience. I fail to see it differently from the way men on this site are reacting to women who want out. I certainly don't see the men on here just walking away and giving up. Quite the OPPOSITE.
REALITY.. Follow reality... not what you "wish for" ....
