Need Advice, WAW wants to give it a month

[trrose]

In my sitch, one of the major R issues was / is my inability to calmly hold difficult conversations with my W. I would either retreat into silence, or lash out with angry criticism. Either way I lost. The more our R went downhill, the more my W controlled things as I tried to keep the peace in the M. The more I gave up things to keep the peace and try desperately to hold the M together, the more respect my W lost for me.

its so lame how we have to revert to "dating" behavior and play hard to get to get our wives interested in us again...my wife didnt work on anything for the last 5 months and now that i saw an atty and we had a realtor to the house..she wants to slow things down.

one thing is for darn sure. i want to save my M but im not afraid to end it...she will probably jump my bones! (lol)