The other little things I have notice is after our dinner discusion we had our kids at my friends house who I was going to go afterwards anyways. We are all friends and the wives and girlfriends were making taco's and cucumber salad. The guys were grilling the steaks and it was like old times.

The guys then head inside and and went down stairs to karaoke. The girls got done cooking and I went upstairs to check up on the kids and her. She wanted me to make her a taco so I did. I gave her the plate and she took a bite. I said hey could I have a bite too? Instead of handing me the plate she holds it and feeds it to me. I was buzzing a bit but remember it clearly. I was like wow you haven't done that for me in ages! It felt really good.

It was around 2am and we took the kids back to my place. I told her I can take them but I need help bring both of them inside. So she helps me and we seperate the keys. I did ask her to stay since it was late and I know its a long drive. She said no I can't. I told her they are going to look for you in the morning. she said I know and looks down. I gave her a huge and kiss on the cheek and said "thank you for a great night."

Sunday we took the kids to the Zoo. At first on the ride there I felt tension and a wall. But I as I kept coming up with new ideas to talk about she opened up to me and loosen up a bit. She really opened up when I talked about a friend who is going to school for dental hygienist. We started talking about school that we both are young and should go back. I never onced talked about the R and it was great! We had fun with the kids. My kids were so much happier seeing the both of us together. I knew it and she nows it too. After the Zoo I took the family out for some Pho and we went back to my place. She helped me with the kids and she told me that she will come and visit them on Weds before she goes to Atlanta. I gave her a huge and a kiss on the cheek and said "thanks for a great day."

my mom who loves her dearly before we left to the Zoo was begging her to come back and was telling her that my little ones are much happier with us together. She just sat there and listened but didn't say much. I told my mom its ok don't push her. So when my mom showed up at my place afterwards I told her to not push her because I'm trying something. So she just asked her if she wanted any cucumbers, peppers, corn, etc from her garden. She also told her that when you have the kids and I miss them and you please answer the phone and don't ignore me. My mom almost broke down and she told my mom "ok". A lot has been happening and I want to keep this positive thing going on.


Me:27
W:24
S:2
D:9 months
M:3 years
Together for 8 years
Bombed : 6/11/09
Moved out: 6/27/09
Found out about her affair 9/7/09
(she started her's at 6/25/09)
Begged n plead 7/25/09
started DB 8/17/09