I am remaining calm. I agree with what you're saying. I was just venting here. I will just file this all away and continue observing.
And worry not, I do not grill my S's -- I usually don't have to, as S8 sings about anything and everything without being bidden and without any prodding. Often when I wish I wasn't hearing what I was hearing. It's not practical to let S8 in on surprises, for example, as they will not remain secret for very long once he knows. It is just a part of his nature.
