Hey S, I know you know where I am coming from. Make no mistake, I dont feel sorry for your h or mine for that matter. They made these choices and they have to live with the consequences of their actions.
I am just saying that he feels what he feels. You dont have to feel sorry for him, but, they are his feelings, however wrong or stupid you think they are. That being said, by you saying, I can understand you feel like a jerk is not supporting his choice or having sympathy. It is just you hearing what he said.
But, I dont want to beat a dead horse. You feel what you feel about it and that's all that matters to me.
That's great that you have a buyer for your house. What are your plans for where you are going to live?