Kevin,
Been lurking on your thread for a while. I'll admit to have not read it all as I'm trying to limit my time on DB. One piece of advice, get over-involved with your kids. Do every thing you are doing and double it. Today is their first day at school. Go have lunch with them if you can. Introduce yourself to their teacher's. Talk to the school councilor. Know each one of their friends. Its crunch time. Your kids need you now more than ever. You don't have time to fix something that can not be fixed at this time. Focus on leading your family - not controlling it.

Not sure if I wrote that for you or me :-).

BTY - You are picking up every morsel you W lays out and gobbling them up like candy.

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Me-41
W-39
M-15 yrs T-17 yrs
D-12
S-9
S-8
B 5/08
S 1/09