Answering your question on what positive changes I have made is almost embarrassing. Like many on here, or at least some, the changes are things that never should have needed changing. I have kept my temper in check, I have not acted out in anger, I have listened with a willingness to learn, I have helped more around the house, I have worked hard at being a better father, I have spent less money without talking to her first, I have acted with kindness and humility, I have had empathy. I could go on, but you get the picture. And I am ashamed I have got myself to this place because I had chances to do this before but didn't think I needed to.
Nothing to be ashamed about. I can say the same thing for myself too. These are the same changes I should have been doing all along.
