Yes, I have to go back to the DB basics. I see this now. I was so close to having my W working on things with me and I blew it. But it's not over yet!
My W did proclaim just 3 weeks ago that she loved me and wanted to be with me. It's hard for me to believe that's changed. It goes back to your "feeding the squirrel" analogy. I had my W feeding, but I scared her away. I just gotta try again.
Just as an aside...I find it amazing on how detached I was just 3 weeks ago just to find my self re-attached and hurting again. It felt like I wearing a suit of armour and it didn't bother me what my W was thinking or doing. Just simply amazing! Now that's all gone to pot. I wonder if detaching is faster the second time around.
Thanks a bunch, LFH
ME: 38 W: 35 D2.5 and S5 Married 12 years Separated (same house, different rooms) INILWYAM by W: 4/16/2009 The day W requested a D: 4/17/2009
