Sorry to hear about this weekend. Mine was very bad as well, as my W has already moved out (I think with OM) and came back to get the rest of her stuff on Sat evening. She then said she wants to move forward with divorce... I told her that I had to think about things and this was moving way too quickly...
Anyway, you mentioned a few times that your W noticed some positive changes that you made. Please share the changes that you made -- was it paying her compliments or just noticing her? My W said I was "doing everything right" back in late March, but really hasn't noticed any changes (at least since April). Besides giving your W space, what else have you been doing that would cause her to notice positive changes? I'm hoping to get some ideas... It's more difficult now since my W moved out though... Thanks.
Me:41 W: 36 No Kids
EA&PA: JUL08-OCT08 & MAY09-fwd
W said we may not make it: JAN09 W said she doesn't want R: 5/8/09,6/5/09,7/19/09 Moved out: 7/31/09