Okay, well it may not be her hormones if she seems okay outside the R. But I believe it is more obvious in a MR b/c of the intimacy involved and how unbalanced homones will definately show the bad side of a woman. She would be able to "control" her behavior or attitude to others in most situations, but in her M it would come to the surface. Anyway, I thought I had mentioned the possibility before but couldn't remember.

Stuck is right about taking what your W says so personally....if it is due to her hormones being out of whack. (BTW, it takes a lot of lab tests that my regular doctor was not doing.) Anyway, she has a lot to learn b/c I know I use to rely upon "feelings" also and it would worry me b/c I could not produce those feelings. I had the same thoughts that she is having. It is natural for her to long to have those "in-love" feelings that she had in the beginning of the R. What she doesn't understand is that it has to come from her instead of waiting around and think it will either "happen" or it won't.

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!