Hi all. My W and I have been separated for 2 months and I just found out today she is seeing OM. She denied it for months, but I got some hard evidence and when I conforted her, she admitted to the A.
This is all new to me, but what's my next move? At this point, I don't want her back. But we do have a S4 and D2, who are my first concern?
Still a little shocked, but would appreciate any guidance.
I think you are doing the right thing by getting your own accounts and removing the joint ones (yes they spend like no tomarrow and i think that they belive there is no tomarrow) you will more than likely go through anger hurt and back and forth for a long time even if you want to put up with her and take her back. I know i keep going through this and im so mad at her right now I dont care but im sure later i will be back to thinking of her and the good times
