She's using the kids as an excuse. It comes down to the fact that she's afraid to leave. She's afraid to lose her life raft (you).
You have to cut off her support system by living your own life and show her you're happy without her. That the kids are happy without her.
She's in a very selfish period right now. You can't get yourself dragged into it. Showing her figures, facts, etc. isn't doing squat, so protect your and your children's interests.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
