Sandi, there is some confusion here because our MC thinks there is depression involved, and her gynecologist and GP thought she needed medication, so she was put on a mild antidepressent. She only took it for a week, because she didn't like the side effects like feeling spacy, and an inibility to orgasm (we were still MLing then). So the medication never had time to take effect. What's confusing is that she does do fine outside of the R. She seems ok with things not related to me. She write as much in that letter she sent me. I do notice however a short fuse when it comes to the kids, but she has always handled stress badly. The weekend is coming up, Sept. 11. One thing she seemed to focus on in her letter was she feels like if she truly loved me she wouldn't lose her feelings. I understand part of the weekend stresses how love is a choice, not a feeling. We will see how it goes.
Me-40 W-41 Together-10 M-8 S-6 S-4 Bomb 5/08 Bomb 10/08 Thought things were better, was wrong. Still living together Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.
