Hey Mo, your post was very interesting and I need to catch up on your sitch. It sounds to me like you are telling BBJ to drop the rope (which i agree wit / actually drop him altogther) but you are still hanging on to it after 13 years? maybe I read this wrong.
I know what you mean by becoming your parents....but which one? I sure hope my D8 becomes the best of both parents....

BBJ, on Thursday or Friday, I was reading that you will never introduce your kids to anyone else...you were not ready...all the things I used to say...I hung on for 6 months. You on the other hand hung in for six hours!!! Good for you....a date on Friday night already!!! Go out and enjoy yourself, you deserve it.
If you need some pointers on on-line dating (the dos and dont's...let me know),