Very low key night - both of us are exhausted and went to bed right after we got kidlet down.

Only one little tidbit of interestingness. My kitty is hiding in a corner sheltered by the edge of the couch and an antique oval pedestal table. I have boxes stacked on the end of the futon in the guest room, and H had me take a small rolltop desk off the wall where it was mounted and put it on the futon, too. So, just to be overly clear... it is not possible for anyone (other than a cat) to sleep on the futon tonight.

So while we're watching the cats to see how they tolerate each other, H says, "Well, if you're sleeping out here tonight, you'll be near him if Andra (our alpha female) makes any trouble for him."

If??! Um, where else would I be sleeping??

And, and 2nd bit of interestingness...

There was a gift cert laying on the sofa table when I got here. $50 to a nice restaurant, one I'd been wanting to try and *may* have mentioned to H - not certain. I think I did, but not sure.

Not knowing that I'd already seen it, he took it and hid it. The behavior suggested one of two things:

1) He hid it because he wants to surprise me for our anniv. coming up.

2) He hid it because he's planning to take OW sometime.

Soooo, I was going to suggest that restaurant as a celebration when I got my first paycheck - but now I'll wait it out and see what happens.

*laughing* If he does take me, at least I can honestly say it will still be a surprise.

Last edited by Dia; 08/24/09 04:43 AM.

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