LFA good luck. My W said just about the same phrases as your H. I am waiting her out as long as I can. She talked to lawyer already. I have appointment for next week. Nothing WAS say makes sense. I just stopped trying to understand what she was saying and became a bobble head nodding and saying I understand. It took the sting out of her words.
Look for that eye in the storm of confusion your WAS throws at you. There you will find relative calm. Sometimes you get buffeted and bounced around when you drift away from the clam center and you just have to right your course and back to the calm of the eye.
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