K4D Rising #4

[25yearsmlc]

Today the kids, my dad and I all went to mass. Then we went and had pizza for lunch. From there we went to drop D11 off at W's house so W could take her shopping for a few more things. While there me and W discussed the first day of school and activities for the kids. The conversation went fine. She asked about the Cowboys stadium and I told her all about that.

Then W's step dad in law showed up and said hi to me and hugged me and asked how I had been doing. He was very nice. He still likes me. Just W's mom hates me.

All in all it went fine. Then my dad and I and D7 headed back to my apartment where I marinated some meat to grill out for dinner. We will probably take D7 to the pool in a bit.

I know I have pretty much been abandoned on here. But I am going to post anyways as it is an outlet for me.

Kevin

What is it you expect K4? You said you only "want positive support from now on from people who agree with you" and no one can disagree with you or your goals.

You are incapable of distinguishing from detaching and giving up[/b] so there is no point in advising you to do anything b/c all you want is advice on getting your wife back, and even if that is possible,[b] it'd be by detaching! Then You SAY you "get it", but you say lots of things. But what you DO, is NOT detachment by a long shot.

I have no idea what you think people who posted to you several times a week for months, are supposed to say now, about you marinating your steak...."good job!" I love meat....?? Is that your GAL?

On the other hand, I sure as heck don't want to debate theology with you, nor do I want a long LONG post from you on your "belief du jour" about m, or "real love, vs need" wherein you post what someone else (like me! for instance) [i]told you [/i]months ago, or something you read somewhere BUT which you don't act on, and you post it as if you are teaching US SOMETHING YOU LEARNED, AND ARE PRACTICING....but the thing is, you still pursue, you still obsess about your w, and you still note everything your w does or says or what you think she means, and...

Oops, there I go, Not being "positive"....so if this is "abandoning" you, then so be it. You told us you only want us tell you how right you are. If we don't think you are right, or accurate, what's to say?

Even when you DID want real advice, you rarely took it and when it came to the big stuff, you never did. How many MONTHS has it been that we all pleaded with you to get help for your poor d's, and now, maybe, you say you have "set it up" so that sometime soon it might happen....but all I know is I' ve heard way more about your w's reaction to it and who will pay for it....than anything good or positive about it.

This is NOT a 2 x 4. It's an answer to a comment and really, you THINK you know why people are no longer posting to you. But you don't. Maybe, you should say "thanks so much!" to the many many people here who posted to you so often, SO OFTEN for SO LONG, only to have you noq play this victim thing??....while you repeat the same behavior again.

You have gotten more attention for longer than anyone I know on this site. So please don't complain about "being abandoned". It's not becoming.


Now I really have to go.

Good luck,
j