Yes it bothers him. I have been talking to him about the 'household' things and that is about all. I try not to talk to him about my feelings or what I am thinking. I feel like I get no where with it.
Also the doctor put me on some new meds that I can honestly say are making me extremely moody. Since I know that I am moody, I think that it is better not to talk to him. I worry that me being moddy will just make things worse. I guess I am going mute on my M right now.
The week was uneventful. Lots of things going on with the back to school stuff. Over the weekend I went to my sister's house and helped her with some stuff then went to friends' house afterwards. My H called me and I did not answer, I felt that he would ruin my good mood so I did not want to answer. Needless to say when he asked me about it today, I told him the truth. He got upset with me. I stayed calm and just said that it was the second time that he had asked me a direct question (last weekend being the first time about weather I trusted him or not) and I had answered it truthfully and he got angery with me. I asked him if he wanted me to lie to him from now on so that I did not tell him my true feelings about stuff. He got mad and hung up on me.
I guess I should have stayed mute!
I got lots of stuff going on this week and I will stay pretty busy. That is always good since when I am busy, I don't think about the crap hole that my M is in right now.
Me-31 Him-28 D1-9 D2-6 Married 5-06 Seperated 12-07 He filed 1-08 Reconciled 4-08 D dropped 7-08 Bomb dropped about H's activities outside the marriage 4-21-09 Filed for D 4-28-09 Trying to make a go of it 6-09
