So, boys got in the shower, and W says, I was hoping we could talk...
So she says that being in the same house we're going to keep going to each other for support, that she doesn't want the boys to see me upset. She says she can't be in the same house as me, and it doesn't make sense to pour her and the boys into a 2-bedroom apartment, since she's the primary caretaker. She asked me if I'd consider moving out or this "rotation" thing again.
I said no, I will not move out. And I don't want her taking the boys out of the house either.
So she said since I'm "digging in my heels", that she's going to have to dig in her heels too.
Apparently things like sharing a bathroom, hearing me play my songs and wondering if I'm directing them at her, etc. Are bothering her.
She says, I want to minimize the impact on the boys. Doesn't want them to see me upset. I said, the boys are going to be impacted by this. if you want to minimize the impact - So, she says, you're trying to blackmail me with the boys...
Sheesh. I don't know what she's going to do now, but this isn't good.