Hi all. My W and I have been separated for 2 months and I just found out today she is seeing OM. She denied it for months, but I got some hard evidence and when I conforted her, she admitted to the A.

This is all new to me, but what's my next move? At this point, I don't want her back. But we do have a S4 and D2, who are my first concern?

Still a little shocked, but would appreciate any guidance.