in case you are interested in how things worked out for me: my wife hit rock bottom 1 month after she moved out. she hit rock bottom when i started moving on. when she surprised me one day with the statements, "i am sorry, i want to work it out..." i was speechless not because of joy, but because i honestly didn't know how to respond and if i was ready to take her back. we are married today, stronger than before. i can't say it's perfect, but it's better and we're both committed to our marriage.
