Orich, in reading over what I posted, I want to tell you that you do not need to undo what you are "attempting" in detaching from the stitch--until you have some solid information regarding her physical & mental condition. I expressed my concern for her and told you of a "possible" condition other than her being in a mindset of a WAW--in order for you to realize that it doesn't HAVE to be one thing and one thing only. I don't want you to change your DB techniques unless you find out that she is not a WAW and does have these other problems. I wanted to clear that up in case I might have given the wrong idea.
I do hope you will answer the questions I asked.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!