The kids were just put to bed.

I had additional conversation with my W. She said that she doesn't have time to file this week...but it will happen the following week. The only other option she's giving me is that we stay as roomates until the kids go to college.

I am in shock that she's willing to give up half her time with the kids. Like my brother told me...W and I each will miss out on 7.5 years of our daughter's life by the time she goes to college. Talk about perspective.

As W was going out to the gym, I reminded her of her commitment to retrovaille as a last resort to save our marriage. Well, I believe this is last resort time. She asked for the dates.

Does anyone have experience with retrovaille? Does it help?

Thanks,
LFH


ME: 38
W: 35
D2.5 and S5
Married 12 years
Separated (same house, different rooms)
INILWYAM by W: 4/16/2009
The day W requested a D: 4/17/2009