trose- noticed you have two very young children. Many marriages struggle after second child (mine sure did)...
I am not sure what you can do with this information, maybe just know that W still has hormonal stuff going on and it is overwhelming to balance everyone's needs...no excuses, just relating.
And I am looking forward to tackling robx's questions. I'm not one who finds it easy to be succinct so later tonight when all is quiet, I want to address it.