Dan texted me a couple times today and I didn't reply as they weren't questions. Comments like 'going fishing' and 'on the road headed your way'.
Then he sends 'Did you still want to talk tonight'
Um, let me see, weren't YOU the one who was tired of dealing with me and wanted to talk details THIS week? Geez
So I replied back that yes I was planning on it and had set up my parents to watch the kids.
He got here and I was in a really good mood all nice and upbeat and everything fine. He was asking me where I wanted the camping stuff unloaded, in the garage or down to the storage unit.
I told him to keep whichever parts were his and put them in the storage unit and leave the rest with me. Said that there wasn't anything of mine left in the storage unit so he should use it for storing his stuff.
What he doesn't know is I took 3 more big boxes of his clothes that I forgot were hanging down in the basement, over to the unit the other day. Surprise when he gets there!
Anyway I was making dinner, he wanted to show me the rest of the cake he had made. Asked me what I thought of it, told me to taste it, see if I liked it, etc.
I don't know why but then he started backing down from talking tonight. I was showing him Nathan's dental forms, he just went and got caps and they gave us papers re. what else they need to do with his teeth. I mentioned that we start up school this week and I will go ahead and get signed up on my own insurance. He said, "That isn't necessary at this point there is no hurry". Oh really? I just said, "I waited two years, now I am ready to take care of things".
Then he went out on the deck and started talking to me about how nice my lawn looked, the grass looked good, talking about my new landscaping,etc. I followed him out b/c the kids weren't out there. I told him that we probably didn't need to talk details, just have his lawyer write up his ideas and give them to me and I will take them to my lawyer, I wasn't going to sign anything until I talked to mine anyway. He got all uncomfortable, said he knew I wouldn't, etc. Then I just said that when he served me I preferred to be served at home not at my job. He said he wouldn't do that anyway and acted like somehow I was pressuring him...by that I mean he kind of gestured with his hands like 'stop talking about that'
He got all weird and then he said he was really tired, the kids were tired from the camping weekend, they didn't really need to go to my parents', tonight wasn't a good night to figure things out.
Aaargh. So I had to call my dad and cancel when he was eager to have the kids. Plus I didn't send Nathan to karate b/c I thought we were going to be meeting during that time, so he missed another lesson for nothing.
