Let it be for now. Your 180s are getting to him, and they have the added benefit of helping you feel good. These are things you should do for yourself for the rest of your life!

There might be a point in the future where an R talk or further steps might be appropriate...but for now, we don't want to scare the little rabbit. Take each day as it comes.

I'm betting sleeping on some musty couch and living the single man life isn't looking so appealing to him now. Remember, he's still in alien territory though...and it's your nonreaction that's eliciting the results. He's like a little boy watching his mum as he slides his fingers toward the hot stove...you know?

More of what's working!

SD

Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!