Hey Cas, It must have 'cost' you so much emotionally to send that text so well done, you!
Perhaps you should go along to the dinner afterall but H's parents surely do not have to be 'gone', as you put it? They are still the kids grandparents and whilst the relationship may be different for you all from now on, you all still have the same objectives in common. They know your situation better than most and the love you share is not going to disappear. I would play it by ear and take your cues as to how it is going ... Good luck!
WAH 43; W 47 M 16; T 17 Cats 15 & 6 Bomb 27/05/09 ow 28/06/09
"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"
