So...your W says she's not sexually attracted to you anymore...what's missing? In what other ways aren't you meeting her needs as a man? An A is not THE problem; it's a symptom of the issues in the M. Lack of sexual attraction isn't THE problem; it's a symptom of other issues in the M, especially for women.
What have your W's said in the past? What would you say are your issues?
Here is a partial list:
1. didnt communicate constructively when something was bothering me./ - i would withdraw when my W would nag instead of confronting the issue and how it made me feel -i would dig at her at times instead of expressing my anger
2. i should have listened more instead of offering solutions
3. can lose my temper when my W says something that i disagree with or when i thing she says something outrageous 4. i tend to exaggerate at times and can be dramatic 5. prior to my W dropping the bomb i did not help out enough around the house with the cooking and cleaning..not fair to her since we both work.
Im sure i can think of some more
TR Rose T-10 M-6 H-39- W-36- S-4 D-1 Bomb 4/09 Blow up 8/09 1st thread 2nd thread 3rd thread