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So...your W says she's not sexually attracted to you anymore...what's missing? In what other ways aren't you meeting her needs as a man? An A is not THE problem; it's a symptom of the issues in the M. Lack of sexual attraction isn't THE problem; it's a symptom of other issues in the M, especially for women.

What have your W's said in the past? What would you say are your issues?



Here is a partial list:

1. didnt communicate constructively when something was bothering me./
- i would withdraw when my W would nag instead of confronting the issue and how it made me feel
-i would dig at her at times instead of expressing my anger

2. i should have listened more instead of offering solutions

3. can lose my temper when my W says something that i disagree with or when i thing she says something outrageous
4. i tend to exaggerate at times and can be dramatic
5. prior to my W dropping the bomb i did not help out enough around the house with the cooking and cleaning..not fair to her since we both work.


Im sure i can think of some more


TR Rose
T-10
M-6
H-39-
W-36-
S-4
D-1
Bomb 4/09
Blow up 8/09
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