Need Advice, WAW wants to give it a month

[trrose]

Oh, well that explains it. You're married to MY wife

I happen to agree that alot of the situations are very similar...throw in an EA here take away a PA there, degrees of this and that. the patterns cant be ignored.

but to be fair...perhaps there are patterns in the LBS behavior. it does take two and while we spend alot of time saying how we are married to the same woman...THEY may be married to the same guy (woman)

Im also not offended that people think my wife is screwing around becuase i understand how that is a logical conclusion, but it is possible that she isnt..( if she is i would like to know so i can end the M because that is a deal breaker for me).


One thing i do know is that my wife is currently communicating with me more than any time during this process (will it last? who knows)

SHE suggested that we write down what we need in the relationship and also have another list of what we each did to bring us to this crises.

for my wife this is a big step becuase nothing is ever her fault (will it last? who knows)

Perhaps she senses that im tired and am prepared to end this thing..i do want to save the family but it isnt a suicide pact.

the best case sceanario is that the marriage is saved...if it doesnt shake out this way i hope to learn a lot to make me a better man for the next relationship