Give it to me straight!

[SDFoundGirl]

I vote yes, too. Surely you can find a babysitter?

Now, going for drinks doesn't mean anything you don't want it to mean. Be clear, be direct, be honest and just enjoy the attention. When my H and I were having issues, I had a male friend who just lavished the attention on me...and I ate it up it felt so good. It helped me remember who I was and that H wasn't the only fish in the sea. It helped with detaching.

So good, enjoy a drink, enjoy some conversation, and have a good time.

SD