AAK, when you mention TCB, taking care of business: can you be more specific.
In your case, there was no affair but there was no sexual desire.
What specific areas were you alienated in the relationship? What did your husband do or what was his behavior like that contributed to that problem?
You lost respect for him for deferring to you? I'm not sure what that means, is that the same as blaming you? What was he blaming you for? Was he being abusive in this respect?
The TCB is very interesting, what wasn't being done.
This could all prove very helpful to any men who are reading this and are trying to determine why their wives have lost sexual desire for them?
You lost sexual desire for your husband completely? Were there times when you were fighting with him/arguing that you did feel sexually attracted? Did you lose all sexual desire or was it just your husband that turned you off? Did you feel frustrated in this area with your husband/
What did your husband do to correct these issues? What caused you to gain sexual desire for him again if that is where you are at right now? What specific behaviors & changes did he make that made you feel attracted to him again in that way?
Seriously this is good stuff, alot of LBS's on this forum need to hear this stuff and the details associated with it.
